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GENERAL AUDIENCE
Wednesday 19 December
1979
The Fullness of Interpersonal Communication
What is shame and how can we explain its absence in the
state of original innocence, in the depth of the mystery of the creation of
man as male and female? From contemporary analyses of shame - and in
particular of sexual modesty - we can deduce the complexity of this
fundamental experience, in which man expresses himself as a person according
to his own specific structure. In the experience of shame, the human being
experiences fear with regard to his "second self," (for example,
woman before man). This is substantially fear for one's own "self."
With shame, the human being manifests almost instinctively the need of
affirmation and acceptance of this "self," according to its rightful
value. He experiences it at the same time both within himself, and externally,
before the "other." Shame is a complex experience. Almost keeping
one human being away from the other (woman from man), it seeks at the same
time to draw them closer personally, creating a suitable basis and level to do
so.
For the same reason, it has a fundamental significance as
regards the formation of ethos in human society, and especially in the
man-woman relationship. The analysis of shame clearly indicates how deeply it
is rooted precisely in mutual relations, how exactly it expresses the
essential rules for the "communion of persons," and likewise how
deeply it touches the dimension of man's original "solitude." The
appearance of shame in the subsequent biblical narration of chapter 3 of
Genesis has a pluri-dimensional significance. It will be opportune to resume
the analysis in due time.
the meaning of original nakedness, this dimension
absolutely cannot be disregarded. This participating in perception of the
world - in its "exterior" aspect - is a direct and almost
spontaneous fact. It is prior to any "critical" complication of
knowledge and of human experience and is seen as closely connected with the
experience of the meaning of the human body. The original innocence of
"knowledge" could already be perceived in this way.
However, it is not possible to determine the meaning of
original nakedness considering only man's participation in exterior perception
of the world. It is not possible to establish it without going into the depths
of man. Genesis 2:25 introduces us specifically to this level and wants us to
seek there the original innocence of knowing. The dimension of human
interiority is necessary to explain and measure that particular fullness of
interpersonal communication, thanks to which man and woman were naked and were
not ashamed.
In our conventional language, the concept of communication
has been practically alienated from its deepest, original semantic matrix. It
is connected mainly with the sphere of the media, that is, for the most part,
products that serve for understanding, exchange, and bringing closer together.
On the other hand, it can be supposed that, in its original and deeper
meaning, communication was and is directly connected with subjects. They
communicate precisely on the basis of the common union that exists between
them, both to reach and to express a reality that is peculiar and pertinent
only to the sphere of person-subjects.
In this way, the human body acquires a completely new
meaning, which cannot be placed on the plane of the remaining
"external" perception of the world. It expresses the person in his
ontological and existential concreteness, which is something more than the
individual. Therefore the body expresses the personal human "self,"
which derives its exterior perception from within.
The whole biblical narrative, and in particular the Yahwist
text, shows that the body through its own visibility manifests man. In
manifesting him, it acts as intermediary, that is, it enables man and woman,
right from the beginning, to communicate with each other according to that communio
personarum willed by the Creator precisely for them. It seems that only
this dimension enables us to rightly understand the meaning of original
nakedness. In this connection, any "naturalistic" criterion is bound
to fail, while, on the contrary, the "personalistic" criterion can
be of great help. Genesis 2:25 certainly speaks of something extraordinary,
which is outside the limits of the shame known through human experience. At
the same time it decides the particular fullness of interpersonal
communication, rooted at the very heart of that communio, which is thus
revealed and developed. In this connection, the words "they were not
ashamed" can mean in sensu obliquo only an original depth in
affirming what is inherent in the person, what is "visibly" female
and male, through which the personal intimacy of mutual communication in all
its radical simplicity and purity is constituted. To this fullness of exterior
perception, expressed by means of physical nakedness, there corresponds the
interior fullness of man's vision in God, that is, according to the measure of
the "image of God" (cf. Gn 1.:17). According to this measure,
man "is" really naked ("They were naked" - Gn
2:25), even before realizing it (cf. Gn 3:7-10).
We shall still have to complete the analysis of this
important text during the meditations that follow.
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