1. "And they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all that were in his
house" (Acts 16:32).
Dear families of Rome, this verse from the Acts of the Apostles frames our
meeting of faith and prayer which ends the diocesan week dedicated to life and
the family as part of the City Mission.
I greet the Cardinal Vicar, Camillo Ruini, whom I thank for his kind words. With
him, I greet Bishop Francisco Gil Hellín, Secretary of the Pontifical Council
for the Family, the Honourable Carlo Casini, national president of the Pro-Life
Movement, Mons. Luigi Moretti, diocesan director of the Pastoral Centre for the
Family, and Mons. Renzo Bonetti, national director of the Italian Episcopal
Conference's Office for Family Ministry.
At this time I am thinking of all the families in the Diocese, especially those
who feel particularly troubled: may the constant attention of the Pope and of
all the local Church be an encouragement to them. I would like to repeat to
everyone the words spoken by St Paul and his fellow prisoner, Silas, after their
miraculous release, to the astounded jailer who asked them what he should do to
be saved. The Apostle replied: "Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be
saved, you and your household" (Acts 16:31). Welcome Christ's presence into your
family: this is the invitation that rings out this evening.
Dear families of Rome, do not be afraid to open the doors of your home to Jesus
Christ. His divine plan enriches families, frees them from all slavery and leads
them to the total fulfilment of their own vocation.
2. At the many meetings I have been able to have with young people in Italy and
throughout the world, I see evidence of a growing desire to build families in
which the genuine values of love, respect for life, openness to others and
solidarity can be lived. How can we fail to notice in these aspirations an
implicit opposition to the permissive behaviour contemporary society is seeking
to endorse?
Dear Christian families, look at the need for love, self-giving and openness to
life that exists in the hearts of your children, who are confused by examples of
failed unions. Children learn how to love their future husband or wife by seeing
their parents' example. Do not be satisfied with living the Gospel of the family
in private, but proclaim it and witness to it to everyone you meet on your way
and in every area of public and social life.
In this bold yet connatural task of bearing witness you are not alone. The Holy
Spirit is with you: he dwells within you by virtue of the sacraments of Baptism,
Confirmation and Marriage! He will sustain you in the fulfilment of your
mission!
3. Our city of Rome, like all Italy, has great need of a new, systematic policy
for the family, in order to face with the hope of success the very serious
challenges that lie before us, the first of which is the fall in the birth rate.
It is an illusion to think that wellbeing can be created by a selfish mentality
which in various ways denies space and acceptance to new generations. The
attempt to equate other forms of cohabitation with the family based on marriage
proves just as irrational. All this inevitably leads to a civilization's
decline, both morally and spiritually, as well as socially and economically.
Therefore I ask you, the families of Rome and all the families of Italy, to join
forces, also through the activity of the Family Forum, to promote the
identity of the family as a social subject and thus to achieve those cultural
and legislative changes which can do justice to families and ensure the true
welfare of society. The Church is at your side in this task and will never
desert you.
4. Dear families of Rome, as we contemplate the model of the Holy Family of
Nazareth, let us pray the Rosary together. Let us entrust to the intercession of
Mary and her husband, Joseph, all the families in our city and especially those
who are living in difficult situations. Let us entrust to them the young people
preparing for marriage through that moment of grace which is their engagement.
Let us also entrust to them those responsible for promoting more just and
constructive family policies. May the Lord bless all families and make them
privileged places for meeting him, through the authentic proclamation of his
love.
May Mary, Queen of the Family, protect you all with her maternal heart and,
through her intercession, obtain for you from God an abundance of consolations.
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