MORNING MEDITATION IN THE CHAPEL OF THE
Good manners and bad habits
18 May 2013
(by L'Osservatore Romano, Weekly ed. in English, n.
21, 22 May 2013)
After “armchair Christians” come “gossiping Christians”, Pope
Francis said on Saturday, 18 May, at morning Mass in the Chapel of the Domus
Sanctae Marthae. He expounded on the bad habits that conflict with the “good
manners” displayed by so many Christians. And among the bad habits is,
precisely, that of “flaying” each other alive with words, with misinformation or
with slander. Gossip, the Pope said, “is destructive to the Church”. Jesus often
spoke of this to Peter and to all the others, as the Pope recalled. He asked
Peter several times “if he loved him, if he loved him more than the others.
Peter said ‘yes’, and the Lord gave him his role: ‘feed my sheep’”. This was “a
real, loving conversation”. However, at a certain point, the Holy Father
explained, Peter was tempted to interfere in the life of someone else (cf. Jn
Peter, the Bishop of Rome said, was a human being and so
could not but likewise be tempted to interfere in the life of others, “as the
vulgar expression says, to ‘stick his nose into other people’s affairs’”. This
also happens in our lives as Christians. “How often”, the Pope wondered, “are we
tempted to do this?”. Dialogue “with Jesus has been diverted to a different
track”. This interference in others’ lives comes in many different forms. The
Pope mentioned two: the constant comparison of oneself to others, and gossip,
which is literally, “flaying each other”. Three other common forms of negative
behaviour, he said, are misinformation, false accusation, and calumny.
Concelebrating with the Pope among others was Bishop Enrico
Dal Covolo, sdb. He came with personnel of the Pontifical Lateran University of
which he is Rector.